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I have learnt that still I have a lot to learn

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I've learnt that... You cannot make someone love you. All you can do is be someone who can be loved. The rest is up to them. No matter how much I care, some people just don't care back. It takes years to build up trust, and only seconds to destroy it. It’s not what you have in your life, but who you have in your life that counts. You can do something in an instant that will give you a heartache for life. No matter how thin you slice it, there are always two sides. You should always leave loved ones with loving words. It may be the last time you see them. We are responsible for what we do, no matter how we feel. There are people who love you dearly, but just don't know how to show it. True friendship continues to grow, even over the longest distance. Same goes for true love. Just because someone doesn’t love you the way you want them to, doesn't mean they don't love you with all they have. Mat...

Simple Parenting Ideas that works

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1. Children need a minimum of eight touches during a day to feel connected to a parent. If they’re going through a particularly challenging time, it’s a minimum of 12 a day. This doesn't have to be a big deal; it could be the straightening of a collar, a pat on the shoulder or a simple hug. 2. Each day, children need one meaningful eye-to-eye conversation with a parent. It is especially important for babies to have that eye contact, but children of all ages need us to slow down and look them in the eyes. 3. There are nine minutes during the day that have the greatest impact on a child: the first three minutes right after they wake up the three minutes after they come home from school the last three minutes of the day before they go to bed We need to make those moments special and help our children feel loved. These are simple, right? Nothing really earth-shattering here. But try it. For a month. Do share your experiences. Thanks and Enjoy the day...

Worth reading short stories

1. Fall and Rise Today, when I slipped on the wet tile floor a boy in a wheelchair caught me before I slammed my head on the ground. He said, “Believe it or not, that’s almost exactly how I injured my back 3 years ago . 2. A father's advice Today, my father told me, “Just go for it and give it a try!  You don’t have to be a professional to build a successful product.  Amateurs started Google and Apple.  Professionals built the Titanic 3. The power of uniqueness. Today, I asked my mentor – a very successful business man in his 70’s – what his top 3 tips are for success.  He smiled and said, “Read something no one else is reading, think something no one else is thinking, and do something no one else is doing. 4. Looking Back Today, I interviewed my grandmother for part of a research paper I’m working on for my Psychology class.  When I asked her to define success in her own words, she said, “Success is when you look back at your life...

Life is easy- Control Your Anger

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A Professor was teaching about Proverbs He asked his students,  ' why do we shout in anger? Why do people shout at each other when they are upset?' The students thought for awhile. One said, because we lose our calm. But why shout when the other person is just next to you? Asked the professor. Isn't it possible to speak to him or her with a soft voice? Why do you shout at a person when you are angry? The students gave some answers but none satisfied the Professor. Finally he explained, 'when two people are angry at each other, there is a distance in their hearts psychologically. To cover the distance, they must shout to be able to hear each other. The angrier they are,the stronger they will shout to hear each other through that great distance. Then the Professor asked, 'What happens when two people fall in love? They don't shout at each other but talk softly. Why? Because their hearts are psychologically close. The distance between the...

How to Make Women Always Feel Loved

The most common complaints of women while in a relationship is feeling unloved. In fact last month was accompanied by holiday out of town, every week of eating in an expensive restaurant, accompanied out of the country every year, but still feel unloved. Actually there is a logical explanation for this. If you want to be seen as a man who loves women of all time, here's how. First of all let us imagine beautiful creatures called women. They are gentle, loving, sweet, adorable, and also make miss her. Well the next guys, think about this one thing: the bathroom tub ... Seriously, think about your bathroom tub in the house. We women have a unique way of feeling love: we should be able to continue to feel loved. Like a bath tub which should be continuously filled with water, we feel loved when we got the attention simultaneously and continuously. So if you want the tub filled with full love, so you have to open the faucet. But the most common mistake that man mad...